Dave the Wave...I did not say YOU were middle age, re-read my post I said "If You" (meaning the generic anyone)
From your reaction I must have hit a nerve iniside you that was a flash back when one of those 20 year old Victoria Secret Models that you met on your last cruise indicated you were the same age as her father (smile)
among the many other pieces of wisdom my grandfather shared with me was" never be with a woman unless she has more to lose then you do"
in today's culture...60 is the beginning of middle age, when you are in your 40's you are still a "pup" ... feel better DTW !! (smile)