No, I'm not a lady, I am a guy, 38 years old, 4 cruises under my belt, won't post my resume here but interested to find folks to cruise from long beach with. I am in Arizona and can fly to LA direct from here for a great price which makes the cruise more of a bargain. I have done LA-Vallarta-Cabo and am interested in other itineraries. I have sailed with NCL and Carnival in the past. I think anything less than 7 days is a bit of a waste but it is important to me to get to know each oher first before making any travel plans. Let me know if you want to talk further. Salud! Sid.